Really, who does not have learning issues as a child? Children want to play and play and play. It is obviously going to be somewhat difficult getting them to the study table. Even more, if they reluctantly come to study, it can get tougher getting them to focus on the lessons. This seems to be a very common issue with parents. Reactions to such lack of attention may range from criticizing the child or being not so happy, so to say.
Do not worry
Actually, you just need to be patient. It may sound like a typical suggestion, something that you always seem to know! Well, please consider the fact that the problem is not very far from being typical as well. Parents and guardians always have to face this issue of getting the child’s undivided attention. Often, a concerned mother may become impatient because she tends to think that there may be some sort of an attention span disorder in the child. So, simply do not let your mind get to conclusions such as ADHD or Autism! Parents are also anxious about their children missing out on the competitive edge early on. Take your time. Have hope.
Responsibility of parents
Focus on growing your bonding with the child. It is necessary to accept the responsibility of not being able to connect with the child in a way that your young one listens to what you are saying! Start with spending quality time with your children. Play with them. Set your professional tasks aside as much as you can to be close to your family.
In the event that parents may have personal differences, it is good to sort it out peacefully. Always remember that it should be wrong to blame the child for any issues between parents. One does not choose to be born anyway! Besides, having an uncomfortable atmosphere is the home is more stressful for a young one, directly affecting their attention span.
About creating a really beautiful atmosphere, you can try playing good music. You will find it surprising how well does the music therapy work! Even as grownups, people usually find it easier to concentrate, with their favorite music playing in headphones. It kind of creates a detached personal space to give the best. Obviously, you need to follow your wisdom in selecting the right tune. Anything that’s too loud, or haphazard, is not cool. Choose soothing instrumental tracks, jazz, or good country music (just a suggestion)! When the young scholar is studying, you can even consider creating a very silent ambiance. Shut down the TV. Keep the conversations into a low tone.
Parents, in their natural state of worry, often forget the simplest thing to ask the children about their problems. They tend to assume that they already know what it is. This may be a way of self-denial as well. So, take a good look at your own approach and recover that heart to heart connection with your child. Make sure that your young one is not afraid to give the true reply. You can always seek professional help online. Find experienced educators who can help you with practiced suggestions for helping your child. Even while putting these ideas to practice, you got to be tolerant.
Another usual mistake many people make is to approach issues with a very technical mindset. As if, there is a switch to turn on to make a robot work to commands! Instead, approach with affection, empathy, and understanding. There may be matters such as how the mind processes information and why motor skills are motor skills, but they should not make you numb to the human element of everything. If you think this is the problem, then take a temporary turnaround from the digital world and connect to nature. Go on family trips and enjoy outdoor vacations wholeheartedly.
Obviously, the digital world can be very helpful as well! Look up good online resources where people facing similar problems share their experiences. You can also connect by reaching out. Discuss your issues and be open to receiving help. It may not be helpful to assume that you already know all the answers! Well, you may have clues, but it does no harm in gleaning the best on how to go ahead with the clues to effective solutions.
Most importantly, follow the clues that are apparent with your child’s behavior. Look carefully at the moments when he is occasionally paying attention. Try to understand what is causing this change of mood and encourage it. See that the little one is getting enough time to play and rest as well. Keep working on growing your bond with your baby. Read together. Reading before sleep is an excellent idea! Apart from helping you to comfort the young soul, it also helps the young ones to develop reading habits. Finally, do not be in tension about professional competition from such an early stage. Everything is going to work well, have that faith! It always does! Of course, before that, you need to go through the usual challenges in the right way.